關(guan)(guan)于同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)關(guan)(guan)系，很(hen)多人說(shuo)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)永(yong)遠成不了朋友，很(hen)多人說(shuo)跟同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)保(bao)持工(gong)作關(guan)(guan)系即可，別交往過剩，這(zhe)些觀點(dian)深(shen)入(ru)人心(xin)，但都是(shi)(shi)錯的，說(shuo)這(zhe)些話的人都是(shi)(shi)不了解(jie)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)關(guan)(guan)系的本(ben)質(zhi)，注意(yi)這(zhe)里面有兩(liang)個關(guan)(guan)鍵(jian)詞，一(yi)個是(shi)(shi)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)，一(yi)個是(shi)(shi)關(guan)(guan)系。什么是(shi)(shi)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)？同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)顧(gu)名思義就(jiu)是(shi)(shi)共同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)做事(shi)的人，這(zhe)個非常容易理(li)解(jie)。在理(li)解(jie)關(guan)(guan)系，同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)之間(jian)的關(guan)(guan)系類型很(hen)復雜，這(zhe)就(jiu)導致了大家(jia)對于同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)關(guan)(guan)系有不同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)的看法，具體有哪些？
一、利益沖突型。這種情(qing)況誰都會優(you)先的(de)(de)考慮自己(ji)的(de)(de)利益，同事關系就非常容(rong)易變得劍拔弩張。
二、深度情(qing)感(gan)(gan)型。有些同事(shi)關系有著共同的目標，一起(qi)扛*，一起(qi)奮(fen)斗，一起(qi)熬夜，同事(shi)關系會產生信任，在(zai)這樣長期接觸的過程中，很(hen)(hen)容(rong)易跟同事(shi)產生情(qing)感(gan)(gan)，很(hen)(hen)多時候(hou)，這種(zhong)情(qing)感(gan)(gan)可以發展(zhan)為好朋友甚至(zhi)好伴侶。
三(san)、路(lu)人型。當然很多(duo)時候跟大(da)多(duo)數的同事沒有太多(duo)的交集，就單純的協作的關系，沒有任何的情感(gan)。
每個人的(de)同(tong)事關(guan)系有(you)很多類，有(you)情(qing)比金堅的(de)，也有(you)平淡如(ru)水的(de)，當然也有(you)勢不兩(liang)立的(de)，我們要(yao)做的(de)就(jiu)是(shi)要(yao)全面的(de)看待同(tong)事關(guan)系，而不要(yao)走極端化。
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