同時只能(neng)交流(liu)不能(neng)交心，一旦交心就可能(neng)讓你焦慮。
1、你(ni)(ni)要清(qing)楚什(shen)么是(shi)(shi)(shi)同(tong)(tong)(tong)事關系。同(tong)(tong)(tong)事不是(shi)(shi)(shi)同(tong)(tong)(tong)學，上了班兒坐在你(ni)(ni)旁(pang)邊，這個(ge)人(ren)不是(shi)(shi)(shi)同(tong)(tong)(tong)桌(zhuo)的你(ni)(ni)。一個(ge)部(bu)門的同(tong)(tong)(tong)事很難成為朋友，跨部(bu)門還(huan)好點兒，為什(shen)么？因為你(ni)(ni)沒有利益(yi)沖突，大(da)量的利益(yi)瓜葛之下，往往是(shi)(shi)(shi)兩面三刀做(zuo)表面，勾心斗(dou)角(jiao)算計(ji)深。同(tong)(tong)(tong)事，同(tong)(tong)(tong)事就是(shi)(shi)(shi)共同(tong)(tong)(tong)做(zuo)事，保持一些距離，可能更(geng)容易做(zuo)成事。
2、別(bie)總想著和同(tong)事搞(gao)(gao)(gao)關(guan)(guan)系(xi)不(bu)重(zhong)要，搞(gao)(gao)(gao)關(guan)(guan)系(xi)要可(ke)給你(ni)錢(qian)(qian)的人(ren)搞(gao)(gao)(gao)職場(chang)是拿人(ren)錢(qian)(qian)財替人(ren)消災，不(bu)是上梁山(shan)去(qu)劫富濟貧(pin)。你(ni)不(bu)用(yong)(yong)充(chong)英雄好漢，交狐朋(peng)狗友，你(ni)所有(you)的工作(zuo)都要圍繞著給你(ni)錢(qian)(qian)的人(ren)去(qu)干，別(bie)把時間浪費在(zai)沒(mei)用(yong)(yong)的人(ren)和事上。
3、和同(tong)(tong)(tong)事交朋(peng)友(you)(you)為什(shen)(shen)么(me)有風險(xian)？你(ni)如果把同(tong)(tong)(tong)事當朋(peng)友(you)(you)，你(ni)就(jiu)可(ke)能什(shen)(shen)么(me)都和同(tong)(tong)(tong)事說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)，你(ni)和他說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)了，你(ni)覺(jue)得他會放在(zai)心里憋著(zhu)嗎？他不得拿你(ni)的隱(yin)私卻(que)當做和別人建立(li)信(xin)任關系的籌碼(ma)嗎？你(ni)說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)出去(qu)多少(shao)秘密，就(jiu)有多少(shao)危險(xian)在(zai)等著(zhu)你(ni)。背后(hou)給(gei)你(ni)刀(dao)的，往(wang)往(wang)都是你(ni)當成朋(peng)友(you)(you)的同(tong)(tong)(tong)事呢。所(suo)以*的哲學家康(kang)德說(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)(shuo)過(guo)這樣(yang)一句話。愿上帝(di)保佑我們(men)免受有人的攻(gong)擊。如果攻(gong)擊來自于他人，我們(men)可(ke)以防(fang)范(fan)，但(dan)來自于有人的攻(gong)擊，我們(men)往(wang)往(wang)猝不及防(fang)，又防(fang)不勝防(fang)。
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