所謂(wei)敬(jing)畏之心(xin)(xin),就是(shi)指人(ren)類(lei)在(zai)自(zi)然規(gui)律和(he)(he)社會規(gui)律面前所懷有(you)(you)的(de)一(yi)種(zhong)敬(jing)重(zhong)與(yu)(yu)畏懼心(xin)(xin)理(li)。敬(jing)畏是(shi)什么(me)?敬(jing)畏是(shi)人(ren)類(lei)對(dui)待事物的(de)一(yi)種(zhong)態度,這里的(de)“敬(jing)”:除了“彬(bin)彬(bin)有(you)(you)禮”、“恭(gong)恭(gong)敬(jing)敬(jing)”外,還(huan)(huan)指做(zuo)事嚴肅認真,免犯錯誤;“畏”:除了“擔心(xin)(xin)、憂慮”外,還(huan)(huan)形容(rong)“戰(zhan)戰(zhan)兢(jing)兢(jing)”,既敬(jing)重(zhong)又畏懼。敬(jing)畏就是(shi)對(dui)一(yi)切神(shen)圣事物的(de)態度。懷有(you)(you)這種(zhong)態度,它能讓人(ren)懂得自(zi)警與(yu)(yu)自(zi)省,它還(huan)(huan)有(you)(you)助于人(ren)規(gui)范與(yu)(yu)約束自(zi)己的(de)言行(xing)舉止。不僅如此(ci),它還(huan)(huan)具有(you)(you)促(cu)進人(ren)與(yu)(yu)人(ren)、人(ren)與(yu)(yu)社會、人(ren)與(yu)(yu)自(zi)然形成(cheng)和(he)(he)諧關系的(de)作用(yong)。
孔子(zi)說:“君子(zi)有(you)(you)三(san)(san)畏(wei)(wei)(wei):畏(wei)(wei)(wei)天(tian)命(ming)(ming),畏(wei)(wei)(wei)大人(ren)(ren),畏(wei)(wei)(wei)圣(sheng)人(ren)(ren)之言(yan)。”意思是(shi)(shi)說,君子(zi)有(you)(you)三(san)(san)種敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)(wei):敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)(wei)天(tian)命(ming)(ming),敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)(wei)居于高位的(de)人(ren)(ren),敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)(wei)圣(sheng)人(ren)(ren)的(de)言(yan)語(yu)。有(you)(you)了(le)敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)(wei)心(xin)(xin),我(wo)們(men)(men)在做(zuo)事(shi)情的(de)態(tai)度上才(cai)能(neng)有(you)(you)張有(you)(you)弛,敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)(wei)天(tian)命(ming)(ming),我(wo)們(men)(men)才(cai)不會(hui)(hui)(hui)做(zuo)一些(xie)傷天(tian)害理之事(shi),心(xin)(xin)會(hui)(hui)(hui)有(you)(you)一份信仰(yang)。敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)(wei)神(shen)靈(ling)(ling),我(wo)們(men)(men)才(cai)會(hui)(hui)(hui)祈求神(shen)靈(ling)(ling)庇佑我(wo)們(men)(men),心(xin)(xin)會(hui)(hui)(hui)有(you)(you)一份希望。凡是(shi)(shi)我(wo)們(men)(men)敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)(wei)的(de),我(wo)們(men)(men)才(cai)可能(neng)很(hen)恭(gong)敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)的(de)對待(dai),凡是(shi)(shi)我(wo)們(men)(men)不敬(jing)(jing)(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)(wei)的(de),我(wo)們(men)(men)就會(hui)(hui)(hui)隨意踐(jian)踏污(wu)蔑。
在社(she)會(hui)上,為什(shen)么有(you)人(ren)進了監獄,是(shi)因為他(ta)們違(wei)反了國家法律(lv),他(ta)們為什(shen)么會(hui)違(wei)反法律(lv),是(shi)因為他(ta)們沒有(you)對法律(lv)有(you)敬畏(wei)之(zhi)心。無敬畏(wei)之(zhi)心,對法律(lv)就抱有(you)無所謂(wei)之(zhi)態(tai)度(du),隨意踐踏違(wei)反。
在企業(ye)里,為什么有人敢違反制(zhi)度,頂撞上(shang)級,是因為他們沒(mei)有對公司(si)的制(zhi)度以和(he)領(ling)導產生敬畏,沒(mei)有敬畏之心(xin),就(jiu)沒(mei)有服從(cong)和(he)管(guan)理(li),職(zhi)場(chang)就(jiu)會失(shi)去(qu)平衡,失(shi)去(qu)倫理(li)。
為(wei)什么(me)(me)很(hen)多(duo)人有(you)個人宗教信(xin)仰,是(shi)因為(wei)人們(men)敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)神靈(ling),敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)神靈(ling)才(cai)會(hui)尊照(zhao)神靈(ling)的(de)(de)意愿做事(shi)(shi)。在(zai)企業中為(wei)什么(me)(me)很(hen)多(duo)人違凡(fan)公司制(zhi)度(du)(du)(du),不(bu)(bu)是(shi)他不(bu)(bu)知道公司有(you)這制(zhi)度(du)(du)(du),是(shi)因為(wei)他沒(mei)有(you)對公司制(zhi)度(du)(du)(du)產生(sheng)敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei),沒(mei)有(you)敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)之(zhi)心(xin),何談遵守(shou)。敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)上級(ji),你才(cai)能(neng)尊敬(jing)(jing)上級(ji)。敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)同(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi),你才(cai)注重同(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)之(zhi)間的(de)(de)友誼(yi)。敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)客戶,你才(cai)能(neng)服務好客戶,敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)制(zhi)度(du)(du)(du),你才(cai)能(neng)遵守(shou)制(zhi)度(du)(du)(du)。敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)工(gong)(gong)作(zuo),你才(cai)能(neng)珍惜工(gong)(gong)作(zuo)。敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)婚姻(yin),你才(cai)能(neng)擁有(you)幸(xing)福。敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)父母,你才(cai)能(neng)盡(jin)孝。敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)諾(nuo)言,你才(cai)能(neng)守(shou)信(xin)。凡(fan)是(shi)敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei),人生(sheng)才(cai)有(you)好結果。現在(zai)很(hen)多(duo)人缺(que)少敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)之(zhi)心(xin),很(hen)多(duo)事(shi)(shi)都是(shi)無所(suo)謂的(de)(de)態度(du)(du)(du)對待,你對生(sheng)活(huo)無所(suo)謂,生(sheng)活(huo)回(hui)報你的(de)(de)也(ye)是(shi)無所(suo)謂。還有(you)些人總覺得自己天(tian)下(xia)第一(yi),誰(shui)也(ye)比不(bu)(bu)上他,總覺得自己了不(bu)(bu)起,無視制(zhi)度(du)(du)(du)、信(xin)譽、法(fa)律(lv)等,無任何敬(jing)(jing)畏(wei)(wei)之(zhi)心(xin),上帝讓(rang)誰(shui)滅亡,必先讓(rang)其瘋狂。
我們常說(shuo)態度(du)決定(ding)一切(qie),態度(du)一定(ding)是建立在敬畏(wei)的(de)基礎上。有(you)了敬畏(wei)心,才能有(you)好的(de)態度(du)。
有(you)(you)憂(you)才(cai)無憂(you),有(you)(you)懼才(cai)無懼。心存敬(jing)(jing)(jing)畏(wei),是(shi)一(yi)(yi)種(zhong)崇高(gao)的(de)(de)精神境界(jie),是(shi)一(yi)(yi)個人(ren)(ren)(ren)更(geng)有(you)(you)意義(yi)地活著的(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)種(zhong)明(ming)智選(xuan)擇,是(shi)一(yi)(yi)個人(ren)(ren)(ren)在世間永遠(yuan)立于(yu)不敗之地、永遠(yuan)受人(ren)(ren)(ren)尊敬(jing)(jing)(jing)的(de)(de)一(yi)(yi)件法寶。敬(jing)(jing)(jing)畏(wei)之心,是(shi)未來更(geng)高(gao)成就的(de)(de)基石,敬(jing)(jing)(jing)畏(wei)萬物,才(cai)能(neng)擁有(you)(you)萬物。
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